Group Classes
Stephanie Hill
Adolescent Body Image Process Group

Everyone has a hard time liking their body during certain periods. Sometimes that dislike turns into body hatred and body shame, and you would do almost anything to feel more comfortable in your body! You might start thinking mean thoughts about yourself, change the way you eat, or exercise more to try and change how your body looks. As hard as you try, you may end up feeling worse and worse about yourself. Sometimes it feels like it is all you can think about. If this sounds like you, we can help you feel more confident, accepting of yourself, and comfortable in your own skin. 


Alicia and Stephanie both have extensive experience treating body image, self-esteem, and disordered eating/eating disorders.  We have a heart for helping youth become more confident, happier with themselves, and to learn how to accept and even like themselves. We are starting a creative and open evening group for teens aged 14-17 and we would love for you to come. 

Adolescent Body Image Process Group
International Women's Day, Inspiration
Stephanie Hill
International Women's Day

Gentleness. Grace. Broken. Heart. Sharp. Bleeding. Dreams. Life. These words (and many more) describe the unbelievably courageous women in my life.

International Women's Day
Inspiration
Alicia Hawker
What I am Choosing to Give Up This Season

What I am Choosing to Give Up This Season: Negative Self Talk

What I am Choosing to Give Up This Season
Inspiration
Stephanie Hill
Come As You Are

We are at the end of National Eating Disorder Awareness week, and this year’s theme is “Come as you are.”

I thought it fitting to include a post of someone’s story. A story of recovery, success, gut-wrenchingly hard work, struggle, beauty, acceptance, and grace.

Come As You Are
Alicia Hawker
National Eating Disorder Awareness Week

Despite the seriousness of eating disorders, many are unaware of the extreme risks and devastating consequences that come with these complex mental illnesses. Anorexia has been and continues to be the deadliest mental health diagnosis. However, all eating disorders are dangerous, and it is imperative that those struggling have support and help from caregivers, friends, loved ones, and sometimes professionals and a full treatment team.


Individuals cannot be diagnosed by their body size or overall appearance, as these disorders involve behaviors, emotions, and thoughts that inhibit the ability to have a healthy relationship with food and physical movement. Even within the professional community, a person's body size often dictates the need for treatment or how ill a person is perceived to be. People needing help are often overlooked because they are not sick enough or do not classically fit the "criteria" for an eating disorder. Society has created a stereotypical idea of what an eating disorder looks like, and we are here to break that stigma. Eating disorders do not discriminate! Anyone who struggles with the devastating effects of an eating disorder deserves treatment and compassionate support.


If you need more information about eating disorders or disordered eating there are wonderful resources within our community, as well as nationally and internationally. Educate yourself and those you know, and seek assistance when appropriate. Check out www.nationaleatingdisorders.org to get started.


With our full hearts, we believe recovery is possible! People have the ability to heal and integrate new coping skills and strategies into their lives. While eating disorders are indeed serious, there is hope and beauty in overcoming the daily struggle with food, bodies, and activity. Embrace the hope that comes with the idea of exploring the dynamic journey of recovery.

National Eating Disorder Awareness Week

Adolescent Body Image Process Group

Adolescent Body Image Process Group

Everyone has a hard time liking their body during certain periods. Sometimes that dislike turns into body hatred and body shame, and you would do almost anything to feel more comfortable in your body! You might start thinking mean thoughts about yourself, change the way you eat, or exercise more to try and change how your body looks. As hard as you try, you may end up feeling worse and worse about yourself. Sometimes it feels like it is all you can think about. If this sounds like you, we can help you feel more confident, accepting of yourself, and comfortable in your own skin. 


Alicia and Stephanie both have extensive experience treating body image, self-esteem, and disordered eating/eating disorders.  We have a heart for helping youth become more confident, happier with themselves, and to learn how to accept and even like themselves. We are starting a creative and open evening group for teens aged 14-17 and we would love for you to come. 

National Eating Disorder Awareness Week

National Eating Disorder Awareness Week

Despite the seriousness of eating disorders, many are unaware of the extreme risks and devastating consequences that come with these complex mental illnesses. Anorexia has been and continues to be the deadliest mental health diagnosis. However, all eating disorders are dangerous, and it is imperative that those struggling have support and help from caregivers, friends, loved ones, and sometimes professionals and a full treatment team.


Individuals cannot be diagnosed by their body size or overall appearance, as these disorders involve behaviors, emotions, and thoughts that inhibit the ability to have a healthy relationship with food and physical movement. Even within the professional community, a person's body size often dictates the need for treatment or how ill a person is perceived to be. People needing help are often overlooked because they are not sick enough or do not classically fit the "criteria" for an eating disorder. Society has created a stereotypical idea of what an eating disorder looks like, and we are here to break that stigma. Eating disorders do not discriminate! Anyone who struggles with the devastating effects of an eating disorder deserves treatment and compassionate support.


If you need more information about eating disorders or disordered eating there are wonderful resources within our community, as well as nationally and internationally. Educate yourself and those you know, and seek assistance when appropriate. Check out www.nationaleatingdisorders.org to get started.


With our full hearts, we believe recovery is possible! People have the ability to heal and integrate new coping skills and strategies into their lives. While eating disorders are indeed serious, there is hope and beauty in overcoming the daily struggle with food, bodies, and activity. Embrace the hope that comes with the idea of exploring the dynamic journey of recovery.

Thought for a Thursday

Thought for a Thursday

On a consistent basis I learn something from one of my clients. I'd like to offer one of the more steadfast thoughts shared with me by a client, that later came to be a life-changing idea for me which I began to pass along readily. "Tears are not weakness, they are a voice to be heard."


Sometimes that voice of our tears is painful to listen to, and other times it speaks of joy, relief, tenderness, love, empathy, compassion... Without pain, none of that good stuff would have much meaning. So whatever your tears are speaking to you, give yourself permission to listen to their voice, letting go of judgment and responding instead from a place of lovingkindness.

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Thought for a Thursday

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Thought for a Thursday

"She had blue skin.
And so did he.
He kept it hid
And so did she.
They searched for blue
Their whole life through,
Then passed right by —
And never knew."

Shel Silverstein

If anyone tells you that they have never worn a mask, I'm not sure I would believe them. As humans, we are trained by our culture in infancy to adapt to situations and people, and our primitive instincts tell us to become who we need to be in order to have the best possible outcome for having our emotional and physical needs met. When we are young, we learn to pretend. Imagination is the beautiful side of pretending. Masks are the tragic side, because they whisper "Who I am isn't ok."

Whatever the reason we once put on a mask, I would like to ask you one question. Do you still need it?

Surround yourself with people with whom you don't need a mask in order to survive. Because who you are, raw and vulnerable and mask-less, is exactly who your world needs. There has never been, and never will be, any other YOU. Let that sink in. Let your blue shine!

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Thought for a Thursday

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Thought for a Thursday

“Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow.”

- Mary Anne Radmacher

In working with clients, speaking with friends and family, and even within my intrapersonal dialogue, I notice the struggle to acknowledge all we are doing well. For me, it can be honoring the strength it takes to manage the chaos of family life, along with the demands and rewards of work, and caring for myself in small, yet meaningful ways. It takes courage to face each day and tackle ongoing challenges.

What areas of your life are you showing courage? In what ways do you continue to persevere and refuse to give up?

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Thought for a Thursday

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Thought for a Thursday

"Our greatest gifts and our deepest wounds reside in the same area"

- Michael Meade


Both gifts and wounds are matters of the heart. This makes me think about resiliency. Resiliency is born of struggle, pain, and difficulty. It is impossible to see a person's resiliency if they have not been through something that tests it. Resiliency is what allows us to not just survive wounding events, but to overcome and even thrive.

When you take a moment and look inside the place that holds your gifts and your wounds, what do you see?

Which gifts have even been born of your wounding? For me, my gift of being a safe person to hear, and lovingly hold, someone's story, comes partly from wounds in my heart.

What about you?

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Happy International Women's Day!

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Happy International Women's Day!

Alicia and I started our group this week. We had ten brave women show up in force because they want to learn to be kinder and more compassionate towards themselves. It promises to be a powerful intersection of 12 hearts (including ours), all working towards the same goal. Because let's face it, we struggle with self-compassion  as much as anyone does. Given that it is International Women's Day, we wanted to give honor to the ten women who began their journey with us this week, and celebrate women worldwide. Let us dig deeper into what it means to love and support on another, and most of all ourselves.  When you can experience it on the inside, you'll have even more to share with others, flowing from a place of abundance.